Encouragement builds self-confidence which builds a great career
The best advice I have received is part advice, part encouragement. I have been fortunate to have people in my life, from the time I was a little girl to now, who have supported me with a simple and consistent: “You’ve got this” and “You can do it.”
The most important sponsors and mentors I’ve had during my legal career provided incredible opportunities for me to stretch my legal skills and take on increasingly complex work. What stands out, though, is not the teaching or critiques received during the hard work and preparation but the frequent and direct communications of their belief, trust, and confidence in my ability to deliver. I’ve worked hard to internalize this advice and it’s the last thing I tell myself before standing up in court or joining an important client meeting. For me, cultivating a positive mindset and building confidence has helped open countless opportunities to learn and grow. It has also provided the resilience needed to face challenges in a faced-paced, competitive, and demanding field. While there will always be uncertainties, particularly at the beginning of your career, the encouragement I received helped to build self-esteem and a strong foundation for future success.
I’ve seen firsthand how an impactful mentor can change the course of a young lawyer’s career, and have benefited greatly from being both a mentee and a mentor. Of course, it is critical to pass on technical skills and guidance on navigating the nuances of a career in law, but it’s just as important to provide encouragement. Now that I have the privilege of sponsoring and mentoring other women attorneys, I strive to pass along the same advice and encouragement that I received, as often as I can. I’ve seen firsthand that coupling confidence with skills and hard work multiplies the possibilities for success.
