Important advice to remember in any language
I am honored to be recognized as a Woman Worth Watching in Leadership. I owe a debt of gratitude for my accomplishments to my parents, who taught me to work hard, be humble, and lead by example.
Here are some aphorisms they learned growing up in Puerto Rico, and which continue to be words of wisdom I live by in my law practice.
El Vago Trabaja Doble (The Lazy Person Works Twice as Hard)
When my parents moved to Texas from Puerto Rico, they had three young children, not a lot of money, and a whole lot of work ethic. I remember rolling my eyes when I was sent back to complete a half-finished chore with this saying. In my practice, this saying rings in my ears when I’m tempted to give a task my barest attention so I can move it off my desk. This is especially true when it comes to mentoring less experienced lawyers. I’ve learned that if I slack off on training and providing constructive feedback to junior attorneys and others on my teams, it will inevitably take more of my time to revise the next draft or proposal.
En Boca Cerrada No Entran Moscas (Flies Don’t Enter a Closed Mouth)
My parents taught me that if you don’t open your mouth, you won’t attract problems and conflicts. When someone brings me gossip, I take it for what it is: a rumor that I wouldn’t want someone to spread about me. And I keep my mouth shut. This allows me to focus on things that matter, like creating a positive office culture and helping others feel appreciated and supported. I am thoughtful and deliberate about when I choose to speak in meetings. This is because listening is the key to understanding—and when I do chime in, it’s because I feel like I have something important or helpful to contribute.
Como te ves me vi, como me ves te verás. (As you look, I saw myself. As you see me, you will see yourself.)
When I questioned my parents’ decisions or criticized someone older and wiser, they reminded me that they, too, were once in my shoes, and I’ll be in their shoes one day. As a mentor to diverse attorneys at my firm, I let them know I understand the obstacles they face as I dealt with similar issues earlier in my career. I also share details about my current practice, so they can make informed decisions about the path to partnership and roles in firm management. My experience in private practice has been overwhelmingly positive, and I hope to inspire other diverse attorneys to continue on this rewarding and fulfilling journey.
