Prepare, but also be ready to reassess and to adapt when you are on the ropes
The biggest challenges that I have overcome have not been at my desk or in the courtroom, but beyond the practice of law. Some have left physical scars, and some have not, but all have helped shape me into a better person and lawyer.
One scar that I see every day—every time I type or pick up a pen—is now almost entirely faded from my hand. Yet it serves as a constant reminder that fears can be overcome, challenges are faced one step at a time, and it doesn’t matter who is watching, as long as you have faith in yourself. That scar came from rappelling down a mountain cliff despite my fear of heights.
I was prepared. I had carefully followed the safety instructions. My harness and equipment were secure. But preparation is never foolproof. Partway down the mountain, my rope became lodged in a rock crevice. My hands and legs scraped across the rock face, and as the rope shifted, I was thrown out of position. With my legs shaking, I felt the eyes of the crowd below, watching me struggle, but unable to help.
Hanging in mid-air, I knew that there was no option to turn back or to remain where I was. I needed to calmly focus, reassess my path, and—most importantly—keep moving forward. Guided by my instructor’s directions and my own instincts, I eventually found my way safely to the ground, ready to encourage the next member of my group to face her fears.
I have never rappelled again, but I have carried that experience with me throughout my career. Preparation is essential, but there will always be moments when things do not go exactly as planned. In those moments, I have learned to remain focused, adapt when necessary, and rely on both my instincts and guidance of trusted mentors.
One such moment came when, after months of negotiations, a last-minute development threatened to derail a settlement agreement as newly discovered evidence was presented in court. I had to quickly develop an alternative strategy and confidently advocate for my client under pressure. By remaining calm and focused, and with some advice from trusted colleagues, I was able to navigate the obstacle and achieve a favorable outcome. Not only was my client happy, but I later received a phone call from the opposing party praising my work.
I have learned that leadership is not only about navigating challenges yourself, it is also about giving the next person the tools and encouragement to know that they can do it too. I am grateful to those who have encouraged me, and always keep an open door to guide and encourage fellow attorneys.
